You know that phrase “It’s not you, it’s me?” Classic break up schtick. However, it’s something we tend to tell ourselves as well. It’s not the situation, it’s something in me that’s causing this to happen. It’s not a series of events caused by situations outside my control, it’s something I’m manifesting. It’s not a…
There’s a spiritual faery tale out there that if you get on your path, if you figure out what you’re here to do and you start doing it, then everything will be easy. Unicorns will appear farting rainbows, money will well up from the earth in such abundance you’ll wade through it, and kittens will…
You have goals, you have dreams, you know what you want your life to look like someday, but is it even possible to get there from here? Someday isn’t now and there’s just so much that has to get done. You’ve got priorities and responsibilities and so many people depend on you…Besides, this is what…
We tend to see life as happening to us and point to the moments when we made free will conscious choices to go right or left or straight on to sunrise as few and far between, as life markers that show where we changed course. We dream of the day when we can make the…
I don’t know how many times I’ve heard people talk about healing deep core issues in a way that makes it sound like they just farted and they don’t want to have anybody else smell it. “I just want to release and let it go. I just want to be rid of it. Isn’t there…
How do you know when something is done? For some things it’s easy like most online games. There’s a goal to achieve and once you’ve achieved it you’re done. Or like school, once the year is done, the course work is done, the degree is done, you’re done. Sometimes it’s not so easy to know. …
Something I run across frequently is self-abuse. There is quite a bit of focus out there in the world on how people abuse each other. Whether it is explicit through trolling, war, bar fights, domestic violence, or the plethora of prejudices out there, we are bombarded with information about how we abuse each other on…
Most everyone has heard of co-dependence whether they actually know what it means or not. Thank you, Intervention. It seems so much like caring for the other person. They have such troubles and can’t seem to get out of them, everyone needs support sometimes and so it’s necessary to help them through this time and…
“They need me.” This is something I hear from clients in conjunction with should I move here or there, should I get a big place or a small place, should I plan for them or not. It could be in reference to aging parents, grandchildren, adult children, or a partner. It’s interesting to me that…
In the US today is the national holiday where we are supposed to honor and acknowledge those who have served. There will be parades and parties, tons of flags flown, speeches made, and lots of flash and show. All of which is great, because they deserve to be honored and remembered and acknowledged. Each service…