So if you were to dream big, what would that look like? Would it be a new to you car? A new car? Would it be that new dress you have wanted for a while even through you have nowhere to wear it? Would it be to travel somewhere you’ve never been for long enough…
We tend to talk and think in extremes. Either we look at things as impossible and so limit the scope of whatever we might choose to make it ‘manageable’ and ‘see if anything comes of it’ or we know its impossible and so we think of the biggest, over the top variation of what we…
Everyone has trust issues. We are taught from a very young age not to trust ourselves. Parenting has become about scheduling, activities, ‘getting it right’ so that futures are bright, and having all the right things. So many times I’ve seen babies so immersed in toys and objects that they cry just from the over…
It’s not the addictive substances or activities we use to medicate the pain away. It’s the things that we’ve been taught don’t matter – sitting in the sunlight, crafting for no other purpose than just because you feel like it, going for a walk somewhere you’ve never been. Why do those things if there’s no…
Addictions are medicine. Something inside us feels bad. Rarely is this physical. Addictions actually hurt the body and cause it to react negatively. Addictions are medicine for emotions, fear, sadness, loneliness, despair, anxiety, and hopelessness to name a few. Using the addictive substance or activity alleviates those feelings momentarily. It puts us into a physical…
Addictions, to food/sex/drugs/TV/alcohol/gambling, are usually just a symptom of something more. They are an escape or a way to try and stop whatever feeling is going on inside your body and your heart. Whether they are a way to deal with depression, feeling like a victim, feeling lost, or lonliness, they are a way that…
Addictions are a difficult subject because the knee jerk reaction is to say, well just stop doing *addiction* and everything will be resolved. But if it were that simple then they wouldn’t be addictions, would they. They would just be habits or quirks of character that no one would worry about much and would go…
It’s hard to ask for help. We’d rather do things ourselves because it’s easier, even if it isn’t better. Asking for help opens us up for criticism. It opens us up to “why?”, to other’s opinions. And when you need help you can feel vulnerable and the last thing you want to do is defend…
From childhood we are inundated with iconic roles that we should fit into, fireman, policeman, nurse, doctor, dentist. No one talks about Poster Artist or Leather Craftsman or Architectural Draftsman. Or Food Cart owner or Crepe Shop Owner or Linguistic Researcher or Government Lab Technician. I could go on and on but I think you…
Have you ever had a dream of being something or doing something that made your heart sing and brought a smile to your face if you ever thought of it? Something so off the wall or crazy or completely radical and impractical that you couldn’t tell a soul? Haven’t we all? Let’s be honest. 🙂…