If grief teaches us nothing else, it teaches us that words make things real. That’s why we don’t want to say that someone has died, that a relationship is over, that we’ve lost our favorite friend or pet or childhood toy. Because if we say it, then it’s true and life will start moving onwards…
We don’t often think about our personal path as something that is interconnected with others. It’s personal to us and connects as necessary for the service we perform or to help us achieve our goals such as to create community, to access some new facet of self, to move us ahead. But we are interconnected…
It’s often hard to get an idea of what the big picture will turn out to be when you start walking your path. When people take that first step, when they commit to being who they really are and acting on it, not just inside in their private thoughts and feelings, but in their external…
It’s a key question and most people don’t think to ask it of themselves or even take it into consideration. They have questions, they have problems, they have dreams, they have needs and they want solutions and answers. They want things to change. But they don’t. So they seek and they learn and they try. …
JUST A COMMON SOLDIER (A Soldier Died Today) by A. Lawrence Vaincourt He was getting old and paunchy and his hair was falling fast, And he sat around the Legion, telling stories of the past. Of a war that he had fought in and the deeds that he had done, In his exploits with…
What if there is no plan? So many clients come to me wanting to know what the meaning of something is. Or looking for the lesson in an event or series of events that have occurred. They are looking for the purpose, the plans they made prior to coming here, the narrative in their story…
It’s time to feel and do. It’s time to move and make, do and shake. Stop thinking. Stop thinking about the past and what it means that you did this or that or didn’t do this or that. Stop thinking about what might be. Stop worrying about what decision you may or may not make…
In the Akashics the internal is external, what we feel and think manifests. So the question to commit or not commit is not a question asked but an opportunity to swim across a lake or river. If you swim, you’ve said yes. If not, then not. Our fears manifest as well, not as the boogey…
No matter how perfect, our families cause us strife at some time in our lives. From the preteens onward we love them and sometimes want to strangle them, need them and yet want to get as far away from them as possible. From there we start making choices for ourselves as to who we are…
“I don’t know what I want.” We’ve all felt that way at some point in our lives, probably more than once. We’re hungry but we don’t know what for. We’re bored, but every suggestion we and anyone else comes up with just isn’t right. We want to be doing something that means something, but we…