People come to me and when I ask them about their background in spirituality or what their practice(s) is or their skills or interest what I sometimes get back is a laundry list of all the classes they’ve taken, the healings they’ve been through, and the people they’ve studied with. To which I wonder, “Yeah…and?” …
The notion of marriage being about romance, about fulfillment of our emotional needs, having anything to do with a soul connection, that’s an amazingly recent development. It’s really blossomed in the past 150 years, but prior to that, it was a rare notion that was indulged in poetry and fiction, not because it was common…
I bring this up with my clients on a regular basis, but even I forget at times. In fact, this was pointed out to me recently so it bears repeating. There is great wisdom to be found in the safety features of an airplane as presented by the airline staff (whatever they want to be…
Most of us have people in our lives in some capacity who have their own agenda and need to tear us down, minimize us, keep us off-balance, make us feel incompetent or small or worthless. They keep us reacting to them, to things that they want, perpetually trying to argue with them, make them see…
It’s that time again. My FILDI is reaching out to yours and saying “Let’s start this shit up!” Thank you, Ze Frank.
Take a moment and think about the life you could have if you had the ability to create it. Would there be travel? Would it have a different house? Music? Would there be dancing? Sports? How about friends? Solitude? Community? Conversation? Is there art? Spa settings? Parkour? What do your days look like? Not what…
Hi Everyone. I’d like to introduce someone to you. Well, several someones. You may know a few of these guys, but most of them you’ve never met before and it’s time we got this party started. So here goes: Everyone, I’d like you to meet your feelings. Feelings, here’s everyone. Beginnings are awkward and I…
We humans are social creatures. We’re meant to belong in a variety of ways. We have connections to our family of origin and make new ones by marriage and by having children. We create community through our friends and our families of choice. We join groups, meet others who share our interests, have geographic connections…
In the 16th century Rabbi Isaac Luria started teaching about the beginnings of the universe. God withdrew itself making a space where there was nothing, therefore something could come into being. Drawing from itself it created urns which it filled with its essence. Unfortunately not all the pots were able to contain such an amount…
“Creating a life that reflects your values and satisfies your soul is a rare achievement. In a culture that relentlessly promotes avarice and excess as the good life, a person happy doing his own work is usually considered an eccentric, if not a subversive. Ambition is only understood if it’s to rise to the top…